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Day One Who Are You, Really?

  1. So Before you begin on this journey into your true potential, I'd like you to stop and consider this:
What would it be like if you woke up one morn­ ing and a miracle had happened - your life had become exactly what you wanted it to be?
Do it now, stop and imagine it.
  • How would you know that the miracle had taken place??
  • What would you see??
  • What would you hear??
  • What would you feel inside??
  • What changes would have happened in your career??
  • In your relationships??
  • Your finances??
  • Your health??
As you use the ideas and practise the techniques you w ill learn from those 7 Articles, you are going to make these dreams come true and remember If you don't take control of your life, someone else will and the most important thing Discover your true potential and become the person you really want to be...

Day One :Who Are You, Really?

              What is a Self-image? 



Your self-image is the way you see yourself in your imagination. The reason your self-image is so powerful is because your behaviour will almost never deviate from this internal map. It acts as a sort of self-fulfilling prophecy, telling you how to behave or perform to act consistently with the kind of person you think you are. Yet many people don't even realize they have an image of themselves until they look. We've all met people who are attractive but who think of themselves as ugly - too fat or too thin or too old or too young. If you truly believe you are unattrac­ tive, you will unconsciously sabotage any attempts to make yourself appear attractive. Because you won't represent yourself at your best, people will inevitably find you unattractive and the prophecy is fulfilled.

How you think of yourself also affects how other people feel about you. Because over 90 per cent of what we communicate is unconscious, the people around you are continually responding to your body language, tone of voice and the emotional signals you are transmitting. Even if the words you use sound positive, you may well find yourself conveying one message verbally and a completely different message with your body language.


Here's the point:
You are constantly letting other people know how to treat you by the way you treat yourself. 


Let's take a closer look at the characteristics as they relate to your own life. I will share with you some of my favourite questions for unmasking your pretend self, uncovering your negative self-image, or feared self,and unleashing your authentic self.Remember, there are no 'right' answers -
each question is simply designed to raise of what stops you from living from your authentic self:

a. Your Pretend Self: Who you pretend to be
Your pretend self is the image you project into the world. Often, this image is based less on how you really are than on covering over how you are afraid you are. Ask and answer the following questions:
  • How do you like to be seen? 
  • Which aspects of your personality do you hope people notice first? 
  • What is it most important that everyone knows about you? 
  • If your life were trying to prove something about you, what would it be? 
b. Your Negative Self-image: Who you are afraid you are

If someone calls you a name that you don't identify with (for example, 'You dirty green-skinned Martian!'), there is rarely an emotional charge attached. If something upsets us, it's usually because at some level we believe it might be true. When I ask these questions in my trainings, people often react by totally denying that the negative traits they are identifying have anything to do with them. When they've had a chance to think about it, they often come back with a shocked recognition that this is in fact exactly what they've feared has been true all along.

One fact will make it easier for you to take an honest look at yourself:

Any 'negative' traits you identify are not really yours - they belong to your negative self-image and were programmed into you when you were a child. By identifying them honestly, you are about to let them go!
c. Your Authentic Seif: Who you truly are



By identifying the traits and characteristics of your three selves, you are freeing yourself up to live more and more from the heart of who you really are - your powerful, loving, unstoppable authentic self.
Here's a guideline to know whether you are identi­ fying a trait or characteristic of your authentic self or if you are caught up in the trap of your negative self- image:
  • Who you really are always feels like coming home.?
  • Who are you when nobody's watching? 
  • If you felt totally safe, what would you do differently? 
  • Who would you be if you lived beyond fear?

REPROGRAMMING YOUR SELF-IMAGE FOR SUCCESS
1. Take a few moments to relax and breathe deeply. As your muscles relax, it becomes easier and easier to unleash your imagination.
2. Now, imagine another you standing in front of you.This is the most magnificent you that you can imagine - your authentic self.
3. Take a moment to feel totally happy with your authentic self. Look at the way that the authentic you stands, breathes, smiles, walks and talks. Look at how the authentic you speaks to others. Notice how the authentic you handles problems and goes for goals.
4. Now, step into and synthesize with your authentic self. See through the eyes of your authentic self, hear through the ears of your authentic self, and feel how it feels so good to live life as your authentic self!
5. Finish your programming session by taking a minute to daydream about how your life will be different as you live more and more from your authentic self.You can imagine yourself living authentically in any number of real situations from your past, present and future. 

Tomorrow, I'm going to share with you the secrets of how to master your emotions and run your own brain, and you're going to learn how your state of mind and body, your emotions, affects everything in your life ... "DAY2" click here


Here is today's key lesson:
The reason you are not yet living the life of your dreams is that you are wasting so much of your time and energy hiding your negative self-image from the world.
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